Chapter 158 70 Cannon Fodder Educated Youth 37
Chapter 158 70 Cannon Fodder Educated Youth 37
Several colleagues looked at each other. He was not in a good state. Did something special happen? After that, several people tried to ask him, but nothing came out. Several people were curious. Did he encounter any adventure? What was there to hide?
For the next two days, they were constantly verifying the questions on the notebook. However, Zou Wenyan's state was quite different from usual, he was occasionally in a daze and even smiled foolishly from time to time.
My colleagues finally couldn't bear it anymore.
"Zou Wenyan, tell me the truth. What happened before? Are you upset? You're not in the right state now."
"Nothing happened! I just have a question and want to consult you!" He also found that something was wrong with his recent state, but the specific reason still needed to be analyzed.
"Okay, you say."
"If, I mean if, I meet a girl and I think she is really amazing. I admire her and appreciate her very much, and then after we part, I often can't help but think of her. What's going on?" Zou Wenyan asked the question that had been bothering him.
Several colleagues looked at each other and exchanged glances. Is there something wrong with him?
"Is that girl pretty?"
"She is good-looking, but more talented and cute." Zou Wenyan said with a smile.
A "pop" sound interrupted Zou Wenyan's thoughts.
"It's confirmed, Wen Yan, you like that girl." A colleague said with certainty. Other colleagues also nodded and looked at him.
"Is this love? It's impossible. Isn't this worship? Isn't this appreciation? Isn't this admiration?" Zou Wenyan was a little bit unbelievable.
My colleagues were speechless. He liked the other person but didn't even know it.
"Then let me ask you. Do you still think about her often after you broke up with her?"
Zou Wenyan nodded, yes!
"Do you feel particularly happy and joyful when you think of her?"
Zou Wenyan nodded again, yes, yes!
"Are you thinking about how pretty she is, how amazing she is, how many things she knows, whether she is studying hard now, whether she is still working, what is she doing now, has she eaten, or even dreaming about her at night."
Zou Wenyan nodded frantically, yes, yes, yes, that’s it.
"Then it's 100% certain that you just like her."
"I, I like it?"
"Definitely. Think about it. There are so many knowledgeable people in our institute. They are also very powerful. Do you often think of them? Do you dream about them? Do you feel happy when you think of them?"
Zou Wenyan shook his head after hearing this.
"See? That's it. You just like that girl."
So this is what love is. So this is how it feels to like someone. Yes, it must be love. In this case, everything seems to make sense. He felt as if the clouds had cleared and the sun had appeared, and he suddenly had an epiphany.
But what should he do next? He had no choice but to ask these colleagues for help.
"Then, then what should I do? What should I do?"
Colleagues thought they were experienced in this area and had a say. Didn't they see that they were married and had children? So they started to give him advice.
"Buy her a gift. Girls like to receive gifts. Beautiful scarves, watches, whatever is more expensive."
"Buy some facial cream, such as Vanishing Cream or Wan Zi Qian Hong. I bought some for your sister-in-law last time and she was so happy. I believe other girls will like it too."
"You need to send food, fruits, snacks are all fine. If that doesn't work, it would be better to send meat coupons, grain coupons and other practical things."
"Help her with the housework. Last time when your sister-in-law had her birthday, I asked her what gift she would like. She said that asking me to help her with the housework for a few days would be more effective than any other gift!"
"Oh, those are outdated. Nowadays, it's popular among girls to watch movies. My sister-in-law's boyfriend invited her to watch a movie, and she was so happy. You can also buy some snacks while watching the movie, and eat while watching."
"You should not only be nice to the girl, but also to the people around her. Sometimes one nice word from them is more effective than 100 from you."
Zou Wenyan felt that what his colleagues said was very useful, so he quickly took out a notebook and wrote it down.
"Alright, alright, stop giving blind advice. Everyone's situation is different. What's right for you may not be right for him."
"That's right. The girl doesn't know anything right now. Maybe she already has a boyfriend. The first thing you need to do is find out if the girl has a boyfriend. If she doesn't have one, then you need to find out what she needs. You need to give her what she needs most."
"You need to get to know that girl. You need to know what she likes to eat? What she likes to wear? What books she likes to read? When is her birthday? ..."
"Okay, Wen Yan, I just summarized it for you. You first have to confirm whether the girl has a boyfriend. If she doesn't have a boyfriend, you can implicitly express that you are interested in her and want to pursue her.
Of course, you need to grasp the degree in this process, and never make people feel disgusted. You can give a small gift appropriately, such as food, such as a silk scarf, and try not to make it too expensive, which will make the other person feel pressured. You can also go to the movies, visit the garden, etc.
If she doesn't oppose you, doesn't dislike you, and doesn't explicitly reject you, then you can release your charm like a peacock spreading its feathers and start your pursuit."
"During this contact process, you have to observe carefully, observe the issues they mentioned before, what they like to watch, what they eat, what they wear, when is their birthday and all other information.
If she has not refused or objected, it proves that she also recognizes you as a person, or likes you as a person. At this time, you can start applying for status and apply to become an official boyfriend. "Another colleague began to add.
"After becoming an official boyfriend, I can give him expensive gifts and start to get to know him better, such as the family situations of both parties and their plans for the future. ..."
"Yes, yes. The identities must be clear. From liking her, pursuing her, to having her recognize you, you are like a temporary worker at this time. If you feel it is not suitable, both parties have the right to call a halt at any time! If both of you feel particularly good, you will become a formal employee. You are officially dating. Then you will become an engaged couple, and then a married couple! There are things that need to be done in each process."
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The office was bustling with activity. Zou Wenyan was like an obedient student, constantly writing down something in his notebook. He felt that what his colleagues said made sense, and that this was their valuable experience in success. He wrote down everything they said without missing a word.
After returning home, I made a detailed plan based on my colleagues' experience and my limited understanding of Xu Xiaoxiao. I explained what to do at each step, what preparations needed to be made, and possible emergencies. I also left a lot of notes next to them for adding and modifying at any time.
After checking several times, I finally felt that there was nothing missing, so I went to bed with peace of mind.
He wrote a special letter back in the morning, making a list of things and receipts that he might need, and asked his family to send them to him in case he needed them.
Once a plan is made, it is time to start taking action. He went to work that day. This required the cooperation of his colleagues, and he had to arrange his work schedule first. He was going to start chasing his girlfriend.
The logistics also need their support. The bills of colleagues and the bills of the masters of colleagues should be given to him first, and he will make up for it later. Although I wrote a letter to my family, I am afraid that distant water cannot quench the nearby fire. Scientific researchers need to be rigorous in everything and cannot make any small mistakes, including chasing a girlfriend!
He also promised that if he succeeded in wooing his girlfriend, he would treat them all to a big meal.
Everything was arranged, and we set off in a high-spirited manner! We arrived smoothly at Xu Xiaoxiao's workplace.
"Hello, comrade. Is Xu Xiaoxiao in the office? My name is Zhou Wenyan. I have something to ask Xu Xiaoxiao."
"You are talking about Xu Xiaoxiao. She is not here today."
"Ah? Then do you know where she went?"
"I don't know. You should ask your leader."
"Okay, thank you comrade."
Zou Wenyan had no choice but to find Boss Yang. Fortunately, they had had dinner together last time and were a little familiar with each other, otherwise it would have been so awkward.
"Hello, Boss Yang. Do you know where Xu Xiaoxiao is?"
"Oh, it's you. Xu Xiaoxiao is out for training. What do you want to talk to Xu Xiao about? Do you need to discuss academic issues again?"
"Yes, yes. Do you know when she will be back?"
"I'm not sure, probably about three days. Do you need my help?" Boss Yang looked at him sideways.
"No, no need. I'll look for her when she comes back. I'm leaving first. Goodbye, Boss Yang!" Zou Wenyan left in a hurry. He didn't know why he always felt that Boss Yang saw through him!
Boss Yang watched his back as he walked away. Haha, what did he say? He knew that this guy had bad intentions, and he knew that he was still sharp! Don't think he couldn't see the deep meaning in this guy's eyes. Xiaoxiao still didn't believe it. If he had known this, he would have made a bet with her.
Zou Wenyan left the store and breathed a sigh of relief. But he was not as confident as when he first came, and was somewhat dejected.
He kept encouraging himself in his heart, this is a test for me. It's only three days, it doesn't matter, come back after three days.
When he returned to work, his colleagues looked at him with gossipy eyes. His expression looked a little strange. Was he rejected by the girl?
"Why are you back so early? How's the situation? Any progress?"
"Yes, yes, just tell us and we will analyze it for you."
"Don't ask anymore. She's on a business trip or going to study. Wait until she comes back. Let's work first." Although Zou Wenyan adjusted his mood, he was still a little depressed.
"Oh, that's what it is." The colleagues dispersed.
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